Immaturity is not a simple thing at all, especially when you are grown up. I agree that there is a little child in all of us that lets us do immature things. But, acting childish in each and every walk of life is not acceptable.
You know, you can also fool yourselves that you’re mature but you cannot fool others. Well because, others who are mature enough can easily point out the immaturity in you. And to stop that from happening in a public place, you need to know the small things which aren’t really small at all.
I’ve listed the important things that honestly make you look like an immature person in front of others. Well, if you just feel like you do this thing in your daily life, then I think that you must give it a stop.
So, here are 8 things that make you look immature.
Things that make you look immature –
You always put others down
Seriously, how many times have you done this? The people who always put others down in front of other people to make themselves look like an amazing or whatever person, they’re the biggest fool. It is just an immaturity that bites people when they see other people doing well. Frankly, if you’re on the same track then stop it right now.
You blame others for your mistakes
Accepting truth and accepting your own mistakes is maturity. But, there are people who just don’t get this thing at all. Such people think that if certain things are not going my way then it is wrong. You know, especially in group assignments etc such things do take place, right? Understand that the person who is blaming others even though it’s his mistake then yes, he is immature.
When you diss others but can’t handle when it happens with you
Remember the trashy jokes and insults that you used to do in the high-school? Well, if you still continue doing it then you’re not fully formed. And especially, when the person you insult, insults you back and it pisses you off then this is dropdown level of immaturity. So, stop it.
Ugh…I hate one-uppers. Seriously, if you’re someone who always try to showoff and tell the world that you’re better than everybody else, then you need to take a chill pill. If you’re good then you must learn to keep it that way without showing off. But still, if you can’t see others doing good then you’re a biggest prick and also, immature.
You think that you’re always correct
C’mon, you need to accept that sometimes even you can be wrong in certain situations. You’re a human being and you make mistakes, so is it that hard to understand that you cannot be correct all the time? If you can’t accept it then start taking the maturity lessons.
You Always throw tantrums
When a celebrity throws tantrums on set, he is indeed considered as an immature person. Remember how many times you must’ve commented on such celebrities being immature? But, if you’re walking on the same path then who do you think you are? Well, an immature person only, right?
You gossip a lot too much
I know, all of us gossip. But hey, gossiping too much and all the time is very idiotic. It’s like an addiction which keeps getting worse all the time. Sharing thoughts and gossiping are two different things and I’m pretty sure that you know the difference very well.
So, cut off the habit of bitching and gossiping too much about others.
Not showing any respect to others
Give respect, then you will get it back too. When you show respect, people consider you as a mature and a good person but if you don’t then it is the opposite. So, don’t waste your time on discussing who is better than me etc etc…instead show some respect and get it back.